Bato, bato sa Langit...

Besides having to witness a a nine-year old boy scold their yaya and physically hurt her (read here), me, Aris and his mom also witnessed a similar incident when we were having lunch in Trinoma one weekend. The culprit this time is not a little boy but the parents.

It started when two girls my age, an older woman and man, three kids (probably aged 3 years old) and 2 yayas went in the restaurant where we were eating lunch. We didn't mind them at first but the screaming from the little kids made us look their way. All three of us were surprised when the two yayas were not made to sit nor eat lunch. I know I should mind my own business and not make any assumptions but my initial reaction to what I saw was not good. The yayas may have eaten lunch already or they may have their packed lunch (uso ba yun?! la kasi akong yaya ever eh) but the least they could do is let them sit. I mean, judging from the "hyperness" of the three kids, I'm sure they're really tired.

It's really sad how other people treat their househelp, yayas, drivers, etc. Some treat them like their personal slaves. True that they pay for their services but that doesn't mean they could do whatever they want with them. Have a little respect people! Without them, you wouldn't have anyone to care for your kids so you can work. Without them there would be no one to help you with the chores. I'm not saying to spoil your maids, I just want them to be treated with respect (especially if they're doing a great job!).

5 comments:

Raft3r said...

i grew up with a yaya. (yes, ang batang malibay ay may yaya. hehe) we still keep her around. she's family. like you. =)

Big Eyed Gal said...

Parang ginawa mo din akong yaya mo ha. Hehehe! Seriously though, dapat ganyan. :-)

pixie27 said...

kami nga ang yaya namin pinapadalhan pa ng pera hanggang ngayon eh =)pero sila aj at marie and mommy ko ang nagpapadala ako noon nung may work pa ako.

Anonymous said...

Household help should always be treated like family if you want them to give you respect. I've seen this happen so many times. A couple of times pa nga inside the church. Tsk tsk

Big Eyed Gal said...

pixie: talaga? bait siguro nong yaya nyo. Kami kasi ni Ver walang yaya eh...laki sa lola lang.

sasha: Hi Sasha! True! They should be respected. Talaga kahit sa church?! Tsk tsk tsk... Di na nahiya. Oh well, may mga ganyang tao talaga.

Bato, bato sa Langit...

Besides having to witness a a nine-year old boy scold their yaya and physically hurt her (read here), me, Aris and his mom also witnessed a similar incident when we were having lunch in Trinoma one weekend. The culprit this time is not a little boy but the parents.

It started when two girls my age, an older woman and man, three kids (probably aged 3 years old) and 2 yayas went in the restaurant where we were eating lunch. We didn't mind them at first but the screaming from the little kids made us look their way. All three of us were surprised when the two yayas were not made to sit nor eat lunch. I know I should mind my own business and not make any assumptions but my initial reaction to what I saw was not good. The yayas may have eaten lunch already or they may have their packed lunch (uso ba yun?! la kasi akong yaya ever eh) but the least they could do is let them sit. I mean, judging from the "hyperness" of the three kids, I'm sure they're really tired.

It's really sad how other people treat their househelp, yayas, drivers, etc. Some treat them like their personal slaves. True that they pay for their services but that doesn't mean they could do whatever they want with them. Have a little respect people! Without them, you wouldn't have anyone to care for your kids so you can work. Without them there would be no one to help you with the chores. I'm not saying to spoil your maids, I just want them to be treated with respect (especially if they're doing a great job!).

5 comments:

Raft3r said...

i grew up with a yaya. (yes, ang batang malibay ay may yaya. hehe) we still keep her around. she's family. like you. =)

Big Eyed Gal said...

Parang ginawa mo din akong yaya mo ha. Hehehe! Seriously though, dapat ganyan. :-)

pixie27 said...

kami nga ang yaya namin pinapadalhan pa ng pera hanggang ngayon eh =)pero sila aj at marie and mommy ko ang nagpapadala ako noon nung may work pa ako.

Anonymous said...

Household help should always be treated like family if you want them to give you respect. I've seen this happen so many times. A couple of times pa nga inside the church. Tsk tsk

Big Eyed Gal said...

pixie: talaga? bait siguro nong yaya nyo. Kami kasi ni Ver walang yaya eh...laki sa lola lang.

sasha: Hi Sasha! True! They should be respected. Talaga kahit sa church?! Tsk tsk tsk... Di na nahiya. Oh well, may mga ganyang tao talaga.

 
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